Is It Time To Give Dating Apps A Break?

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Dating apps have become a fairly mainstream way of looking for love (or simply a quick hook-up). While these platforms work for some people, they don’t work for everyone. In fact, on top of not scoring a date, you could find that dating sites simply cause more issues. Here are just a few signs that it could be worth giving dating apps a break.

The constant rejection is hurting your self-esteem.

If you’re not getting any matches or people aren’t replying to your messages, you could start to experience a major sense of rejection that could damage your self-esteem. Once dating apps start making you feel anxious and depressed, you know that they are not the right course of action for you.  Dating should be a fun experience – not a distressing experience.

You’re getting way too obsessed.

If you’re filling every spare moment swiping, reading dating profiles and checking to see if matches have messaged you, it could be time to take a break. It’s when you start taking dating apps too seriously that the anxiety and mania can start to creep up. You could find yourself idolising your matches, stalking them on social media and experiencing breakup-level sadness when they stop talking to you. On top of this, you could find yourself reading up on success tips and taking an overly scientific approach to dating. A break from dating apps could help you to gain perspective and quell your addiction.

Conversations aren’t leading to meetups.

The purpose of dating apps is to match with people of whom you can then meet up with in real life. If you constantly find yourself engaged in digital conversations that go nowhere, you could be wasting your time. You could find that you’re better at talking than typing. A date chat line could be a more effective way of scoring dates for some people – you can check out this chat lines list to find such phone lines. Alternatively, you could try joining singles clubs or attending speed dating events.

You’ve resorted to the fake-it-to-make-it strategy.

In order to come across more attractive and keep conversation going, some people resort to lies. These could be lies within your bio or lies that you tell within conversations. Once you start lying to people to score dates, you start ruining any chance of an honest relationship. Taking a break from dating apps could help you to redevelop your integrity.

You’ve seen every profile there is to see – and none of them are jumping out.

After spending a long time on a dating app, you may eventually get to a point in which you’ve seen pretty much every profile and exhausted all your options. Taking a break could allow new users to join and could help to reignite your motivation for online dating. If you were using Tinder and you mostly swiped left, you may want to consider whether you were too picky. By not setting such high standards, you could increase your matches and strike up more conversations, in which you could find out new and exciting facts about users you previously assumed were not your type.

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Milo Senalle

Milo Senalle

Managing Editor at Chispa Magazine
As one of the managing editors of Chispa Magazine, Milo Senalle is the go-to man for all things technology, ethical, and financial concerns. Providing laughs with his style of writing and problem-solving techniques, Milo is a voice of reason among the girly staff at Chispa. Married with children, living in Atlanta, he works 24/7 on becoming a man of courage and believes honor begins at home.
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As one of the managing editors of Chispa Magazine, Milo Senalle is the go-to man for all things technology, ethical, and financial concerns. Providing laughs with his style of writing and problem-solving techniques, Milo is a voice of reason among the girly staff at Chispa. Married with children, living in Atlanta, he works 24/7 on becoming a man of courage and believes honor begins at home.