Eleven Ways To Please The Man In Your Life

Eleven Ways To Please The Man In Your Life-Chispa MagazineWhen you’re in a relationship, it takes work. You can no longer be selfish if you want your romance to last. When you have a boyfriend you love, you want to make sure that he stays with you. If you start to neglect him, he might stray or decide he no longer needs you. That is the last thing you want. So… ready to get inspired with eleven ways to please your man?

  1. Get on with his family.

Do you like your boyfriend’s family? If you don’t get along with his parents or siblings, you have a problem. Your man loves you, but his family are no. 1. If you don’t get on with them, you will find that it creates space in the relationship. He will always want to see his family, and if he knows you don’t, it will hurt him. It might be hardest of all to get along with his mom. Mother-in-law relationships are always hard.

  1. Don’t be too needy.

Do you love your man too much? If you are needy with your guy, it will make him feel uncomfortable. Men worry that a woman will trap them in a relationship. Of course, that is not the case, but you need to be sensitive. Everything in your life can’t revolve around your guy. You need to have some things going on that are nothing to do with him.

  1. Support his dreams.

What does your man hope to achieve? Do you even know? If you want to keep your boyfriend happy, you have to support him. That means you need to show him that you are there for him. You should listen to him when he talks about what his dreams or aspirations are, and how he hopes to reach them. Show him that you believe in him.

  1. Ask for his advice.

Men love to feel that someone needs them. If you ask your boyfriend for some advice, it will show him that you value his opinion. That means you value him and what he brings to the relationship. With a simple question, you can prove to him that he matters to you. Sometimes, that is all a man wants to know.

  1. Surprise him with gifts.

When was the last time you bought your guy something? If you have never treated your man to a surprise gift, now could be the right time to do so. There are some unique gifts for men online that might suit your boyfriend. Remember, you don’t always need a reason to give your guy something he will love. If you show a little affection, it could mean the world to him.

  1. Hang out with his friends.

If you expect your boyfriend to hang out with your friends all the time, it has to work both ways. Do you get along with your boyfriend’s friends? At first, it might be difficult to find common ground with these people. After all, you might not have many shared interests. When you take the time to get to know these guys, though, you might find that you like them a lot. If your boyfriend likes them, there must be a reason for that. Take the time to find out what it is.

  1. Take a day trip together.

When you work all the time, it can be a little depressing. Why not take a day trip somewhere together? You could enjoy some time together in the sun. If you look online, you should find that there are loads of romantic spots waiting for both of you.

  1. Take an interest in his hobbies.

What does your boyfriend like doing in his spare time? Of course, it is unrealistic to think that you will both like all the same things. If there is something he enjoys the most, though, go and check it out. For example, if he loves playing soccer, why don’t you go and watch one of his games?

  1. Plan a romantic date.

When you first started seeing your boyfriend, did he take you on romantic dates? Well, now it is time to return the favor. Why not remind your boyfriend why you fell in love by taking him on an epic date. When you take the time to do something nice for your partner, it shows them that you don’t take them for granted. You might want to head to a fancy restaurant or even take him to see a movie.

  1. Make him a delicious meal.

There is no better way to show someone that you love them than by cooking for them. You could prepare a delicious meal to show him how much you care. Can’t cook? Well, that’s not a problem. All you need to do is learn one simple recipe and perfect it. If all else fails, steak and chips is an easy meal that every man adores. Don’t forget to set the table with candles so that it has a romantic vibe. 

  1. Be there when no one else is.

Sometimes, life gets hard. When no one else is there for your boyfriend, you need to show that you love him. If everything in his life starts to fall apart, you can’t leave him to pick up the pieces. Instead, you should be right beside him, helping him figure out what to do next. When you are in a relationship with someone, you have to support them no matter what. We all go through hard times and truth be known, life trials bring the relationship closer. 

Photo by Abigail Keenan

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Mia Guerra

Mia Guerra

Executive Editor at Chispa Magazine
Executive Editor at Chispa Magazine, Mia Guerra is a writer at heart. Regardless the topic, she loves to investigate, encourage, and ruminate on topics that can make us better people. Aiming to live a Proverbs 31 life, Mia is ecstatic to be following her calling with Chispa. At home she is her husband's sidekick and together they are raising a God-fearing family in Atlanta.

Mia Guerra

Executive Editor at Chispa Magazine, Mia Guerra is a writer at heart. Regardless the topic, she loves to investigate, encourage, and ruminate on topics that can make us better people. Aiming to live a Proverbs 31 life, Mia is ecstatic to be following her calling with Chispa. At home she is her husband's sidekick and together they are raising a God-fearing family in Atlanta.