Getting married is an incredibly exciting prospect, but it’s also a major life event. When you take vows, you commit to somebody for life. Tying the knot is a decision that should never be taken lightly. It’s important not to rush or feel pressured to hit milestones. If you’re thinking about proposing, or you’ve been talking about marriage with your partner, here are some key questions to ask first.
Are you ready to commit?
Marriage is a lifelong commitment. Some people know very soon after meeting their partner that they want to be with them forever, but often it can take a long time to be sure about spending your life with a partner. Ask yourself if you are ready to take that step? If you can’t say yes at the moment, that doesn’t mean that you are saying no. You may need more time or you may simply want to wait a little longer. If your partner is very keen to settle down, but you’re not quite there yet, communicate openly and explain how you feel.
Are you headed in the same direction?
When you’re thinking about spending your life with another person, it’s important to have frank and honest conversations about where you are heading and what kinds of goals and ambitions you have. You don’t have to have identical wishlists or aims, but it’s beneficial to be aware of each other’s objectives, especially when it comes to subjects such as having children, building a stable financial future, traveling and deciding where to live. If one person wants to have kids soon after getting married and the other has ambitions to travel the world, it’s wise to discuss plans and try to compromise.
Are you aware of the legalities and requirements?
If you watch movies or TV shows, it may look like it’s very easy to marry another person. In reality, there are practical boxes you have to cross. Marriage is a legal ceremony, and you’ll need to ensure that your venue has a license. If you’re getting married to somebody from a different country, you may also need to apply for a visa, for example, a fiance visa USA if you’re an American citizen and you want your partner to come to the US to get married and then live in the country. If you’re not already aware of the legalities involved in saying I do, it’s a good idea to seek advice and research online.
Does the idea excite you?
Your wedding day should be one of the most exciting and eagerly anticipated days of your life. If the idea of getting married to your partner doesn’t fill you with exhilaration and happiness, this could be a sign that you’re either not ready or you don’t want to marry that person. If the prospect of walking down the aisle makes you feel anxious, nervous or worried, it’s best to wait and consider whether you want your future to involve your partner.
Getting married is one of the most significant life events you can experience, but it can be a daunting prospect. If you’re thinking about proposing or setting a date, it’s beneficial to ask yourself some questions before you take the plunge to ensure that you are ready.
Mia Guerra
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